Avoidant
Low anxiety, high avoidance
Independence and personal space matter to you. As closeness grows you want to step back a little, and you are used to dealing with difficulties on your own.
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Your profile
Pure types are rare. This is how your answers came out.
What comes easily
- Self-reliance and resilience
- Calm in a crisis
- Respect for other people’s boundaries
Where it gets harder
- Talking about feelings and asking for help
- Staying close when the other person is struggling
- Not downplaying closeness
An attachment style is neither a diagnosis nor a sentence: it changes with experience and in good relationships. The test shows where you sit on two axes right now. The statements were written by our editors after the two-dimensional model of attachment; this is not the standardised ECR questionnaire and does not replace working with a psychologist.
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