Secure
Low anxiety, low avoidance
You are mostly at ease with closeness: you can lean on others and support them without losing yourself. Arguments don’t feel like the end of a relationship.
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Pure types are rare. This is how your answers came out.
What comes easily
- Talk openly about feelings and needs
- Trust, yet notice warning signs
- Get through conflicts and make up
Where it gets harder
- May not immediately understand a partner with an anxious or avoidant style
- Sometimes end up as the one who always calms things down
An attachment style is neither a diagnosis nor a sentence: it changes with experience and in good relationships. The test shows where you sit on two axes right now. The statements were written by our editors after the two-dimensional model of attachment; this is not the standardised ECR questionnaire and does not replace working with a psychologist.
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